Friday, 15 February 2013

LOVE AND YOUR LIFE

So it was this very fine occasion when i decided to write again. About a topic we are lectured about. About a word that has misconceptions. About a feeling that is thought to be a taboo for a guy, generally under 18, but in some cases or people even under 30. Or shall i better remark it as under the eyes of someone else. I decided to write on this topic as this was the week. I know i may be really small to say something about this topic. But lets try and be real. So, lets start with what i have received from people. Their thoughts on this beautiful feeling called love. So i had this friend in a counselor Rupa mom. I use to call her mom as she used to be like a mom to me. Mom always used to tell me. Love mean commitments. And commitments need to be fulfilled. To all those reading it, its a sincere request, never commit to a girl till you cant be sure of supporting her. Imagine, a situation, go forbid, it so happens that you don't fulfill the commitment of always preserving that sweet innocent smile on her face, would you feel nice, if  you saw your love in the position she is just because you committed to her? Even you wouldn't have stayed in a situation like this. Secondly guys, i believe, there is a misconception  "there shouldn't be any expectations or jealousy or possessiveness in love". I strongly disagree guys. If you never had any expectations then wont you miss the fun in surprises of those expectations getting true in front of your eyes? If you don't feel a little jealous about your love being with someone else then how will she get to know the feeling that someone really fears that she will leave and that someone wants that she remains he forever? If you never were possessive about your love, how could you even say that you possessed her? The feeling of possessiveness arises when you know something is yours and you want it to remain yours. Don't you fear that something you possess will be lost someday if you don't take the pride in possessing it? Today when i write this I mention the names of few people i dearly love. The flower of love doesn't alone bloom in between the fruits of lovers, it blooms between the fruits of every relation.
I love my mom and dad for bringing me up and doing things that are inexplicable with just a mere power of words.
I love my sisters, Kamal Gandhi, for being an awesome fun sister: and Manshi Gandhi for being the biggest live wire critic of my life.
I love my special jerks: Rimjhim Choudhry & Apoorva Sharma  for being almost everything outside my family to me.
I love my favourite jerks: Rishab Praveen Vikas. For everything they did for me. Did you? :P
A special thanks to Rupa mom and Sohinii Sanyal for being my inspiration and giving me inspiration respectively.
A special thanks to everyone. Everyone who has ever made a difference in my life.
FOR LOVE IS LIVING WITH A FAMILY. BE IT WITH ANYONE.